Aba El_Tarab "may God bless him".
*About Sahl Abn Saad he said:" Use the city of a man from the Marwan family. He said he called Sahl Abn Saad. He ordered him to abuse Ali. He said Sahl refuse it. And he said to him, "If you rejected so say: " God cursed Aba El_Tarab". So Sahl said: " Ali wasn't have a name more liked from Aba El_Tarab". And if he'd be happy if he was invited to it. He said to him: Tell us about his story. Why he called Aba El_Tarab? Said: The Prophet" Peace be upon him" came to the house of Fatima. So, he didn’t found Ali at home. He said: Where's your cousin?
She said: there was something between me and him. So, he angry at me, and he got out. He didn't nap to me.
The Messenger of God said to a human being: " Look! where he is? So, he came and said: Oh, Messenger of God! And he's in the mosque to lie down. So, the Messenger of Allah came to him while he was lying. His robe fell out of his half. So, He got dusted.
So, he made the Messenger of Allah " Peace be upon him" wipe him away from him and say: stand up Aba El_Tarab! stand up Aba El_Tarab!"
Narrator Sahl Abn Saad Al-Saadi / the speaker: Muslim_source " hadith Muslim _ page or number: "2409"_Summary of the speaker judgment / the right el Dorr.
" He didn't nap to me" means midday nap Which is sleep in half-day. And to be allowed of sleep in the mosque.and liked the courtship of the anger, and joke and walk to him to please him.
Hadith Muslim by explaining El_noaoey / part"15" / The Book of The Virtues of the Companions / "4" chapter: One of the virtues of Ali ibn Aby Talib. / explain hadith number 38."2409" / page "258".
Benefits from The Story of Abo Tarab:
*So, this is a wife who was raised in the house of prophecy and gives us a role model in keeping the secrets of her home, even from her father, the Messenger of God. " Peace be upon him".
How much wisdoms in this wonderful story In the good behavior of the Prophet " Peace be upon him" Not to ask him why he's angry So that the circle of knowledge doesn't expand into what happened between the couple, And the secrets are allowed, And in the good behavior of the wife Fatima Zahra in not disclosing the secrets of her home even to her father the prophet chosen, And in the good behavior of the husband Ali Abn Aby Talib "God bless him" Where he 'temporarily' emerged from the place where the devil sparked the fire of disagreement between him and his wife, He didn't give him a chance to increase that fire.So, where did he go? He didn't go to Flan to tell him what happened, and he didn't even complain to the Prophet" Peace be upon him". But he sat in the mosque.Because the Muslim in it is far from the devil's whisper.
Good behavior from everyone:
With a look at the previous situation, we see how Mrs. Fatima did not tell the Prophet the nature of the dispute and what it is. but All she've ever told him is just a disagreement.It also shows the good behavior of Ali Abn Aby Talib, who left no room for the expansion of the apartment of discord and anger, so he left his wife and went to the best place where to rest
It also shows us how wise the Prophet was, as he did not ask his daughter about the causes and details of the dispute, or did he reproach or blame Ali. But he's fondled and floated in a way that has had the most far-reaching effect of the disappearance of the deposits of anger and distress.
"This is what we must follow husbands, wives and fathers in such situations, whether it is the tension on the part of the wife or the husband"
The art of marital relations in the light of the Qur'an, Sunnah and modern knowledge Mohammed Al-Khashet
*The nickname was taken in praise, not in the sin. Because the Prophet does not invite anyone except the love's names to him, and because Ali "may God bless him" he likes to call him that.
*In it, the people of Al-Fadl may fall between the big ones and his wife, what the human beings are angry about, and that may cause him to leave his house and not be burdened……It is possible that the reason for Ali's departure for fear that he will appear in a state of anger that is not suitable for the funeral of Fatima" may God bless them" so he resolved the article of speech in that Until the outburst of anger from each of them is inhabited.
*And there is the generosity of the prophet's creation Because he heads to Ali to please him and wipe the dirt off his back to simplify him and caress him in the mentioned nickname taken from his condition and he didn't blame him for his angry with his daughter with her high status.
*And it is taken from him to be kind to the in-laws, and to leave their suffering to keep their affection…….
* It is a vibrant life with the high dealings of the Prophet " Peace be upon him" with his friends and others, he checks and apologizes, and directed, And the pleasure enters on whoever happened to him what might tempt his heart, And he's bless at his chest, Everyone pledges kindness, honesty, love and serenity, he's the messenger of God. Who Allah described as saying: "and verily you are on an exalted character". And his saying: "and by the mercy of Allah you dealt with them gently". This great deal of the Great Prophet brought out a generation that conveyed this dealing to the worlds.
And they formulated figures from the Qur'an and sunnah and the biography of the Prophet " Peace be upon him" became a higher example in all human history, he testifies to him fair, even if he's an adversary.
What we need edited is to return to his life " Peace be upon him" and the lives of his good friends. Let's get the pure appointee, we bring life back to the way it was. clean and pure, she doesn't disdain anything. The Prince of believers, the knight, the Zahid, is remembered in the school of guiding and practical prophecy. It became the great approach of Islam, Following the beloved al-example, the Prophet " Peace be upon him". He was taken about him as a little boy at home, then he was young. As he fights invasions, he fights against Islam, and the prophet of Islam, and he's a son-in-law, He is a husband and father and he is a soldier and he is a leader and caliph and so on.
This is the Islamic life that is characterized by the method of God and under the guidance of the Prophet " peace be upon him".